Sometimes we try to make everybody happy, to use Solomonic wisdom to find a fair middle, but at the risk of making everyone unhappy. Sadly, moderation is not the virtue it used to be…
When it comes to the raging debate over Kiev or Kyiv (there was even an official Ukrainian campaign called kyivnotkiev (on FB etc), I have a bit of proverbial ‘skin in the game.’ For one, my full legal name (I will spare the 3rd first name) is Laurent Alain Cleenewerck de Kiev which makes sense in French where Kiev is the historic spelling. We talk in France about Anne de Kiev (who was the queen of France) even though we (I include myself among French speakers here) may well write Kyiv in an article about current geopolitics. I think there is a difference between Kiev as a traditional reference to a historical place and culture (Kievan Rus’) and Kyiv a specific reference to the modern-day political capital of independent Ukraine.
To a very small extent, Kiev and Kyiv are a tiny little bit (though I fear that it is a bad analogy, like Constantinople and Istanbul. I note in passing that Russians would often refer to Constantinople as Tsargrad. Constantinople and Istanbul are the same place but one refers to that city in a particular historical and cultural milieu whereas Istanbul refers to the capital of the modern-day Turkish state.
So to me, it would be actually a bit unusual to read a current headline (Russia to expel Ukrainian diplomat, prompting vow of retaliation from Kyiv) as Russia to expel Ukrainian diplomat, prompting vow of retaliation from Kiev because Kyiv makes more sense in this context.
In short, I would recommend the use of Kiev (1) historical and cultural references (2) in languages such as French where the foreign name of a city is pretty much irrelevant (Vienne, Londres, Rome) but I would recommend the use of Kyiv as a reference to the political capital of Ukraine and as a journalistic short for Ukraine in the current geopolitical context.
I note in passing that Kiev is somewhat easier in terms of spelling because people don’t have to double-check if the y goes before the i or vice versa!
Of course, the tragedy is that Kiev, Kyiv and Moscow should find a sense of brotherhood and unity incurred in Christ and in this shared history in Orthodox Christianity without the tragic interference of political nationalism.
Ultimately, I think most people would agree that there should be a Patriarch in Kiev and of Kiev on account of the ancient dignity of this truly remarkable of cities and also on account of the sheer size of the surrounding territory and the distance from Moscow. These two great cities and their patriarchs could create a special statute for how the two patriarchates would function together and in the unity of faith while respecting the legitimate differences that have developed over the centuries between what is now known as Ukraine and the Russian Federation.